Happy Thanksgiving sexy people!  I hope this post finds everybody doing well and living a Kink-A-Licious life!!!

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I hope you enjoy this weeks questions!

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Question 1

Dear Skylar, What is your best advice for a newbie trying to achieve an anal orgasm?

Signed, Anally challenged

Answer:

Dear Anally challenged,  Do not despair, alas, many guys find it challenging in the beginning. The good news is, every guys is capable of achieving an anal orgasm with practice and exploration.  First things first,  a few hours before engaging in anal play, do an enema to get things cleaned out and ready for play.  You can purchase this at your local drugstore.   Don’t be nervous, just relax and read the directions.  You may get a bit of abdominal cramping but that’s because it’s doing it’s job to empty you out.

Next, start out with a smaller dildo, do not begin with a 9 incher.  Use a good quality lube that is silicone based and NOT water based.  Make sure you have plenty on both the dildo an your tight little hole.

Best position for starting out is laying on your back.  I always suggest newbies get into a state of arousal before starting anal play, so spend a few minutes stroking thy cock first.  When you begin penetration, explore angles with the dildo and angles with your hips.  It’s about finding what feels good for you.  Remember slow and steady wins the race.   There is no shame in keeping cock stimulation going in the beginning.   If you need support when you play, you know who to call! (wink)

Question 2

Dear Skylar,  I have a very small cock, like maybe the smallest.   I have enjoyed humiliation for years but now find myself wanting to explore being a sissy,  is that weird?  I am struggling with this and would love to know your thoughts.  Signed, I Want to be a Sissy.

Answer

Dear I Want to be a Sissy,

I promise it’s NOT weird.  As we go through life, we change and grow and so can our kinks.   It’s not unusual to develop new ones and we should explore.   There is no harm in that.    I would read everything you can on the LDW Mistress blogs on all things sissy, and believe me there is plenty.  I also advise getting a Mistress Mentor to help you on this journey.  It’s exciting and new, and a good mentor can guide you, give you tasks and answer many questions.   Finally, join our free social media website,  www.enchantrixempire.com so you can meet others also into being a sissy.

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Question 3

Dear Skylar, Every Mistress/Goddess has a different take on the following:  what is the difference between a submissive and a slave?  Love Your thoughtfulness and forthcoming perspective on these issues, therefore I would love to hear Your thoughts !!  Signed, A Fan.

Answer:

Dear Fan,

Always lovely to have fans, so thank you for that!  Now to answer your question….For me, I see a submissive and slave as two different things.    A male submissive is a guy who comes to realize that what he enjoys revolves around giving a woman control and power.  He often enjoys service and feeling useful and loves feeling used both in and outside of the bedroom.  But a male submissive still has choice, opinions and can voice them.   A male slave craves service and pleasing a woman but does not voice opinions and does not have choices. Nor does a slave get a safe word.    Being a slave is a very deep service oriented life.   For some slaves it’s non-sexual, for others they enjoy being used sexually.    I hope this helps clarify the two words.  🙂