Question 1:
Dear Skylar, what’s your marital status? What is your favorite color?
ANSWER:
I do love answering personal questions! They are such fun! So, I am currently dating a male submissive here in Florida. We are not married but in a D-s relationship and he is wonderful! Not to mention he gets very turned on knowing what my career is. lol. He is an Alpha submissive and I adore him!
My favorite color? Well I do love black and half my closet is filled with black, but I am also a fan of blue. Wearing blue brings out the blue in my eyes.
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Question 2:
Dear Skylar, I feel that I’m on my way to being a fully gay sissy. How do you feel about public exposure for people who are scared to come out on their own. In the way that it “coerces” them to come out.
ANSWER:
I don’t mind engaging in role play exposure and have done so in a fantasy setting. BUT, I do not do coerced exposure real time. That is a huge deal that could have extreme consequences to a caller. Dangerous ones in my opinion. I would never want to facilitate that type of trouble to someone’s personal or professional life. In a role play fantasy setting, I am on board! Let’s have some fun.
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Question 3
Dear Skylar, would you ever do an ignore call? Especially one where the phone is another room and the caller can’t hear anything for the entire call. I just love the idea of the Mistress getting paid for hours while the caller get nothing at all from her. It is just that some guys aren’t worthy of being in the presence of dynamic ladies even when they pay for it.
ANSWER:
Well, I think every Goddess/Mistress loves “ignore calls.” I have done them on a two Mistress call and solo. They are the ultimate for those of us who thrive and love power and love to feel worshipped. Make no mistake, this Goddess, loves power AND feeling worshipped, and what better way then to be on a call with you silent just listening to me go about my day or even just listening to me breathe. Yes, ignore calls are a mental high and I enjoy them a great deal.
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Question 4
Dear Skylar, I’ve been wanting to bring up my kinks to my partner for some time but afraid of the rejection I will get. What are some great ways I could bring up and discuss with her?
Signed,
Can’t find the words
ANSWER:
Dear “Can’t Find the Words,”
I know this can be a very challenging thing for many guys out there. Fear of rejection or ridicule is always daunting. Here are a few things to think about…
During foreplay, when she is in the throes of passion, ask your partner if she has any kinks or fantasies she has never told you. She may have answers or maybe none, but I can almost guarantee she will end up asking you, if you do. We women are curious creatures. This can be a great moment to tell her, “one” of yours. Try though, to spin it, so it’s about “her.”
For example, if you are kink is cuckolding, the angle might be, “I would love to see you riding a giant cock, that would be sooo sexy!” As opposed to, “I want you to cuckold me and want to suck the guys cock.” See the difference? Keep it about her when presenting the idea.
Another great way to introduce a kink is to suggest watching some porn together and just happen to land on a video of the kink you want to introduce her to. This can be a great conversation starter. Let her know you find the video sexy and intriguing.
There is NO guarantee that she will be into what you are into, but if you don’t ask, you will never know. I hope this helps you, “Find the right words.”
What a fun option for you and others Ms Skylar! I love you are opening your inbox to questions, and concerns about sexy things!
Your answers are wise indeed! Thanks for showing us a bit more about YOU and your sexy smart mind!
Awe thank you so much for your kind words Mistress Erika! I am excited to see new questions come in, and excited to be updating each Friday. I agree, I think this is going to be a great way for guys to learn a bit more about this Goddess. 🙂
WOW OMG how many of the ladies of LDW are down there in Florida. Well I didn’t know that there was such a thing as a Alpha Submissive? I always thought Alpha was the top dog or dominant in order.
Ignore calls really? People do them why? What is the kick in doing them?
Well your sub is a lucky guy.
Hi Judy,
I think there are a few of us that are in Florida. And yes, Alpha Subs are guys that are Alpha in their day to day but like to be subs in the personal lives.
Ignore calls do happen from time to time. Everybody’s kinks are different and some guys enjoy feeling like they are not worthy of a Mistress’s time and attention. Thus they ask to be ignored.
My sub is a lucky guy and he know’s it!!!
Dear Skylar,
Would you ever be willing to do a call in which you let a caller dominate you in anyway shape? As long as it follows ldw guidelines?
Awe Sweet Shelby,
My precious little sissy! Wonderful question and I am sure many are wondering if I have even an iota
of submissive to me. The answer…..no. I am not a switch, I am a Domme through and through. xxx
I can’t live without power and control. I thrive on them!
Such wisdom and depth!! It’s true that talking about your kink or fantasies is incredibly daunting with hour partner. I have done a little but need to explore more. My partner is very curious and asks questions I might not be ready to answer. Do you suggest they pick the porn to watch?
Hello G,
It’s all about communication with your partner for sure! I always advise guys to find a video of their kink beforehand and then just “happen” upon it when with your parter. Let her know you are intrigued by it, and like it. This will make her comfortable to tell you she does too, IF she does.
Another method I am a big fan of, is asking her if she has any secret kinks when you have her in the throes of passion during foreplay. She may or may not have any but she WILL ask you if you do. When you share one with her, approach it making it very much about her!
She may or maybe not be into what you are, but you will never know without having those conversations.
Hi Goddess Skylar, I have enjoyed reading Dear Skylar. I was wondering about ignore calls. Would it be possible to do it in a way that you don’t speak to me or are anywhere near the phone during a session even if it was a three hour session.. Just to boring to be talked to or to even be around.
Hello Total Bore,
Yes I do ignore calls. 🙂
As a Dominant female, I find ignore calls very not actually. Anything that makes me feel in control or power will always
make this pussy wet.
Goddess Skylar, I was wondering if you view ignore calls as a caller being a money slave? I love paying someone to not talk to me.
I personally feel that ignore calls are a great tool to get a slave into the “slave mindset.” I have done them on my own and also as two Mistress calls.
I do not really view these calls financial domination, but rather more in the slave task department. Yes the slave pays for the call, in essence they are paying for the honor of listening to me breath, talk, or go about my routines, or even listening to me chat with a fellow Mistress.
Financial domination role play is something completely different in my book.
I look forward to doing an ignore call soon.