Welcome to my Diary. I will be posting very personal thoughts on all things sexy and kinky based on my own experiences. I am looking forward to seeing your thoughts on my diary posts. Think of this section as a sneak peak into my life and kinky, delicious mind!
As a Domme, my kink list is vast, but one of my favorites is the CFNM ,”Clothed Female, Naked Male,” kink. Today I am going to talk about what I love about the “CFNM” kink and my own experiences with it.
THE CFNM KINK : IN THE BEGINNING
When I was in my twenties I had a boyfriend that went to University out of state, when he would return, he would stay at my home with my parents and I. Of course we slept in different rooms but I would sneak into his room late at night, in my PJ’s but I would reach under the covers and take off his shorts. I remember the thrill of it.
There was something in that moment when I was dressed and he was completely naked that just turned me on so much. I would touch him, sometimes take him in my mouth, and other times, lift up my PJ’s and ride him. This was my first encounter with CFNM, although I had no word for it at the time. (And no, we never got caught lol)
When I look back, I was a Domme before I had a word for that too. I love taking control and teasing a guy endlessly. All of my kinks really revolve around the fact that I love control and power. CFNM falls into the power kink that I crave.
Here are a few ways I have engaged in the CFNM dynamic:
Building Trust
On a few occasions I have had a sub come to my front door and before entering he has been instructed to take off his clothes and hand them to me. I then close the door and he waits. I know it feels like an eternity to him, but in truth, he’s there 2 minutes tops. I open the door, tell him to kneel and immediately place a leather collar around his neck. What this does is set the stage before he enters my home. He knows immediately that I am in charge, he is vulnerable and at my mercy. This is also a great exercise into building trust.
CFNM Kink while serving
CFNM while serving me is just hot. I have often assigned tasks or chores to a sub serving in my home, but he must be naked while doing said chores. This helps him remember his place at all times, I thrive in the power of it and the eye candy doesn’t hurt either. lol. Just knowing his body is accessible to me at any time, is an absolute thrill.
I have the option to intervene whilst he is cooking or cleaning to “play” with anything accessible to me. Imagine a naked sub with a tiny apron on, ass towards me while he is attending to dinner. That naked ass before me will be taken and devoured. xxx
Daring CFNM
This one is one of the most outrageous and daring commands I have thrown at the sub. Requiring him to get naked while we are in the car. Granted, it has to be the right time and location, but I have made the command and my sub has obeyed. It was both hot and risky and very late at night.
The sub was nervous and excited to obey. The anticipation of not knowing what I have in store, is a delicious mind fuck all it’s own.
Waiter, Entertainment and Party Favor
I admit I have two very close friends that are also Dommes. From time to time I like to host little get togethers for my likeminded friends, where my sub has been the server, the entertainment and the party favor. He was required to serve completely naked, in the buff, with just a leather collar around his neck. As my guests arrived, his first naked task was to make sure everybody’s wine glass was full and appetizers offered.
After that I made the sub dance, while nice and nude, to entertain us. Mini lap dances so to speak. That’s just to get the party started. Next, I bring out the toys and lube, and he becomes the party favor. Ladies are free to choose strap-ons, handheld toys, vibrators and then use my little beta boy as they wish. My favorite of course is seeing him spit roasted and knowing I have made that happen. When my guests leave, then he performs just for me!
CFNM is wonderful when Domme and submissive are on the same page. It’s such a mental high for me and a huge turn on. Want to experiment with me?
Email me to schedule a session at: Skylar@enchantrixempire.com.
You can also find me on Skype as: BlueEyedSky Sinclair
Goddess Skylar, I am loving the plethora of these CFNM posts lately. In the past I have indulged in this activity with many dominatrices and in many cases more than one at a time. It is just a fantastic experience. It isn’t long….hmmm. Put it this way, “shortly” SPH works its way into the mix…(with me? How could it not?). Putting myself on display like this is an absolute favourite of mine. Even if it was a feminization pegging session, CFNM was always part of it. At the risk of repeating myself….(I’m sure I have said it a half dozen times…)
CFNM SPH? My favourite 7 letters of the alphabet!
Hi littlepeg, I agree, CFNM is a kink not to be missed! I love the power of it. There are so many wonderful ways to lead the experience.
And what an experience it is…and has been!
I confess that as I gradually read your text, my excitement began to grow enormously. I guess that says it all! God I love it, I love your articles, I love your delivery – light and yet respectful and natural. Thank you for a beautiful blog!
Wow thank you Casandra for that lovely comment! I am so glad you are enjoying my blog!! Stay tuned!
Goddess Skylar,
Just read this blog post and I must say that I would truly love to the Waiter, Entertainment and Party Favor for you & your Domme friends. It would be an honor to serve and please you and your friends. Being spit-roasted by beautiful sexy dommes would be heaven.
I need to call you soon, so that you can tell me how I can serve you better as your sissy sub.
I want to serve you.
I need to serve you.
I ache to serve you.
Always yours, your sissy faggot sub,
cdCindy XOXOXOXOX
Hello little Sissy sub,
What a lovely message to log into. Yes you do need to serve me soon. I have ideas in mind.
I look forward to that next call. Until then, be a good girl and think about your Goddess. xxx