Question 1:

Dear Skylar, what’s your marital status?  What is your favorite color?

ANSWER:

I do love answering personal questions!  They are such fun!  So, I am currently dating a male submissive here in Florida.   We are not married but in a D-s relationship and he is wonderful!  Not to mention he gets very turned on knowing what my career is.  lol.  He is an Alpha submissive and I adore him!

My favorite color?  Well I do love black and half my closet is filled with black, but I am also a fan of blue.  Wearing blue brings out the blue in my eyes.

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Question 2:

Dear Skylar, I feel that I’m on my way to being a fully gay sissy. How do you feel about public exposure for people who are scared to come out on their own. In the way that it “coerces” them to come out.

ANSWER:

I don’t mind engaging in role play exposure and have done so in a fantasy setting. BUT,  I do not do coerced exposure real time.   That is a huge deal that could have extreme consequences to a caller.  Dangerous ones in my opinion.  I would never want to facilitate  that type of trouble to someone’s personal or professional life.   In a role play fantasy setting, I am on board!   Let’s have some fun.

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Question 3

Dear Skylar, would you ever do an ignore call? Especially one where the phone is another room and the caller can’t hear anything for the entire call. I just love the idea of the Mistress getting paid for hours while the caller get nothing at all from her. It is just that some guys aren’t worthy of being in the presence of dynamic ladies even when they pay for it.

ANSWER:

Well, I think every Goddess/Mistress  loves “ignore calls.”   I have done them on a two Mistress call and solo.    They are the ultimate for those of us who thrive and love power and love to feel worshipped.   Make no mistake, this Goddess, loves power AND feeling worshipped, and what better way then to be on a call with you silent just listening to me go about my day or even just listening to me breathe.  Yes, ignore calls are a mental high and I enjoy them a great deal.

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Question 4

Dear Skylar, I’ve been wanting to bring up my kinks to my partner for some time but afraid of the rejection I will get. What are some great ways I could bring up and discuss with her?

Signed,

Can’t find the words

ANSWER:

Dear “Can’t Find the Words,”

I know this can be a very challenging thing for many guys out there.  Fear of rejection or ridicule is always daunting.    Here are a few things to think about…

During foreplay, when she is in the throes of passion, ask your partner if she has any kinks or fantasies she has never told you.   She may have answers or maybe none, but I can almost guarantee she will end up asking you, if you do.   We women are curious creatures.   This can be a great moment to tell  her, “one” of yours.  Try though, to spin it, so it’s about “her.”

For example, if you are kink is cuckolding,  the angle might be,  “I would love to see you riding a giant cock, that would be sooo sexy!”   As opposed to, “I want you to cuckold me and want to suck the guys cock.”   See the difference?   Keep it about her when presenting the idea.

Another great way to introduce a kink is to suggest watching some porn together and just happen to land on a video of the kink you want to introduce her to.  This can be a great conversation starter.   Let her know you find the video sexy and intriguing.

There is guarantee that she will be into what you are into, but if you don’t ask, you will never know.   I hope this helps you, “Find the right words.”